Consider each day as another day of life, a gift to be enjoyed as fully as possible.

Help your loved one finalize family planning such as funeral arrangements, signing of a will, or to write letters. Keep in mind your loved one's spiritual or emotional needs. A social worker can be of assistance at your request.

Accept the help of family and friends. They can assist with grocery shopping, laundry and errands. They can also assist with writing thank you notes and other correspondence, as well as screening phone calls and taking messages.

Take your cues from your loved one. If he or she asks directly, "Will I get better?" Try to be honest in your reply.