Choose a funeral home and director that you feel comfortable withÐyou have a choice. You do not have to select the first person you contact. It is recommended that you visit two to three funeral homes before you make a decision. There is no right or wrong way to conduct a funeral or memorial service. The mortuary you select should be supportive of your needs and your choices. Ask about costs and accommodations for special requests.

The following suggestions may be helpful in your selection process. A list of local mortuaries is included with this booklet. If you are not from the local area and need assistance in contacting local clergy, please contact Pastoral Care at 949/764-8358.

You may also wish to contact your clergy to recommend a mortuary and for information on specific religious aspects to consider when making the arrangements.

Other Things to Look For in a Funeral Home

• Location might be a consideration; to provide opportunities for family and friends to visit the funeral home

• Get a recommendation from a family member or close friend

• Visit the funeral home, meet with funeral director and staff and evaluate the facility

• View funeral merchandise such as casket, burial container/vault or urn

• Ask about additional resources such as support groups